I’m so sad today

My dad was in a nursing home since last year, found out a month ago he had cancer, that he chose not to treat. Being 72 he had a good life. He became unresponsive 2 days ago, and they started morphine for comfort. Yesterday afternoon my dad the wonderful mountain man he was, passed on to a better place. I believe he is in a happy place now, I just cannot imagine life without him. So please understand if my shop becomes empty, etc. I have alot on my mind.

 Yes my dad was a mountain man, I grew up going to re-enactments called rendezvous where we slept in tepees shot muzzle loader rifles, had a lot of laughs.  He taught me how to fish, hunt, and love nature.  I miss him so much it hurts, and everything I look at reminds me of him somehow.  So very sad.
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I’m sorry for your loss. The Boundless community is here for you. :heart: :boundless:

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We love you Rosa

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I’m so sorry my dad died almost 5 years ago this October will make it sound whilst I don’t understand exactly I understand somewhat how tough it can be

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Our thoughts are with you, Rosa <3

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So sorry for your loss, Rosa. I lost my Dad last September and I still feel terribly sad.

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Sorry for your loss, the heartache is so real when it’s someone your close to.
My brother in law died of Cancer a few weeks ago, he was more of a real brother though :sleepy:

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Yeah the heartache never leaves sadly it can get better but you will always feel the loss

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my condolences for your loss.
you are not alone, reach out if you need to.

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Thankyou for your condolences everyone, it is very hard, but I know overtime it will get easier. I just keep telling myself he is in a better place. I’m going to honor him in my garden, his favorite thing to do was feed the birds. So in boundless I might have to have a bird building contest.
I am lucky to have had a dad that cared so much, taught me fishing, hunting, and had true selfless love.
I appreciate you all in boundless, there are so many good hearted players in this game. Thankyou

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My deepest condolences Rosa, I am so sorry. :frowning: I’m also always here for you or any here if you ever need to talk. I have been there and still there now… lost three close family in the last four years, brother in '17, stepmom in '19, and now this Feb my mom to COVID. And my dad is fighting cancer too, fingers crossed on the treatment they are trying on him now. The best advice I’ve heard about grieving: the pain doesn’t get better, but we get stronger and are better able to carry it. What I’ve seen personally is a lot of back and forth on mood in the months following. It isn’t an easy road, but hold tight to and cherish those wonderful memories. Hugs!!

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Let me know if there’s anything Brown Town can do to help with anything :slight_smile: @Bethlehem and I are here - whatever you need :slight_smile:

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my condolences . while i cant relate (since every pain and loss is unique) nor take the pain off you if there is anything else i can help you with just msg .

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I am sorry for your loss Rosa. It sounds like your father really was a great dad. Lots of good memories to hang on to =) My stepdad just found out he has cancer, was in hospital for a week starting two weeks ago today. Going up today to have the staples out.

My best wishes for you and may the light of your dad remind you what’s best in life with the dawning of every new day.

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So sorry for your loss Rosa, we love you and we are here if you need anything, I’m glad you took some time to get some memories of him in this last month. Big hugs from me.

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Keep those good memories close to you so they don’t get lost in the sea of bad ones

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Rosa my sincere condolences, I myself lost my father and a sister very early in my childhood adding to that the multiple suicide attempts of my mother due to this tragedy, I had to be strong to maintain the rest of my family. Unfortunately, life must go on and we must learn to live again without the people we loved so much. Pretty sure Daddy will take care of you, be strong as he was. :dove:

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A loss such as this can be very sad. Remember all the positive memories and times you shared together. My heart and thoughts go out to you. If you need anything at all … a friend to talk to or just someone to help you with anything in game while you go through a hard time do not hesitate to reach out!

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condolences for your loss, I hope you find comfort in memories of the good times.

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Yesterday it was 3 years since my father died, love and miss him very much. I’m sorry for your loss
Wish you patience and strength to overcome this pain.

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